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Richard Godwin - What is ethical non-monogamy?

Regulars | By Richard Godwin

Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is when you have intimate relationships with more than one person – but in a non-cheaty way. By Richard Godwin

It’s all completely consensual, non-exploitative and above-board – and everyone involved has a really nice time. At least in theory. What it doesn’t mean is lobbing all your keys in a bowl after dessert; or meeting the Featherstones behind the pampas grass for nipple clamps and fondue – but, then again, it doesn’t not mean that. ...

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