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The wit of Helen Garner - the Old Un

Blog | By The Old Un | Nov 09, 2025

Helen Garner (Wikimedia Commons. This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 2.0 Generic license By Michael Coghlan)

The Australian writer Helen Garner, 83, has won the Baillie Gifford Prize. She has a gift for capturing the tribulations of relationships

Readers of The Oldie will love How to End a Story by Helen Garner, which has just won the Baillie Gifford Prize.

Garner, 83, is a celebrated Australian writer of novels, screenplays and non-fiction. Her diaries are a delicious mix of little chunks of thought: caustic views of her everyday life, together with snappy aphorisms.

She quotes the 1902 diary of painter Paula Modersohn-Becker: ‘Marriage does not make one happier. It takes away the illusion that had sustained a deep belief in the possibility of a kindred soul.’

And here is Garner in 1984:

‘“If I asked you now to drop everything and run away with me,” said K, “you wouldn’t, would you.”

‘(Hangs her head) “No. But I would’ve. Once.”

“What changed?”

“I started thinking.”’